For Love

For Love 

Love is desired by all people.  It is almost impossible to resist.  Sadly, it is almost as hard to find true love.  No one says no to love, and once a person finds love they will do almost anything to hold onto it.  There are many factors that contribute to love.  It is a game of giving and taking.  It is a game however that everyone wants to be a part of.  

Many people believe that love is hard to find.  They think they will never find someone perfect for them.  That is because there is no one perfect for you.  Chances are that there is always someone somewhere that is better for you than the person you are with.  This does not mean the person you are with is the wrong person for you.  They are the most compatible person that you could find.  Usually once you find someone you love you will do anything to stay with that person.  You must give and take to make the relationship work.

In any relationship there are sacrifices both persons involved must make.  You will have to do things you would not normally want to do, and your partner will do things that they normally would not want to do.  What makes a relationship work is the willingness to do the things your partner enjoys, even if you do not enjoy doing it.  If you are not willing to make these sacrifices then you may not be the right person to be in a relationship.

Relationships sometimes do not last forever.  Nobody is perfect and people make mistakes.  There are certain mistakes you make in a relationship.  There are always fights. The ability to “kiss and make up” is what makes a relationship work.  You can not stay mad at your significant other.  You have to be able to forgive each other if the relationship is going to work.  Sometimes there are issues that arise that are not forgivable.  These situations usually do not end well, but usually these situations are created by a person not fit to be in a committed relationship.

Relationships are not for everyone.  There are some people who just can not stay committed to one person.  There are others who are afraid of relationships.  They fear of making a mistake or being hurt.  No body can control what their partner is going to do.  You can only trust them.  The longer you are together the more the trust builds.  One of the keys to a committed relationship is trust

Relationships are not easy.  There are times when you feel awful.  You may even not want to be in the relationship, but if you truly love the other person you fight through the hard times.  You are not alone through these times.  Your partner is there for you, and is going to help you whenever you need it.  That is what true love is about.  It is about making the other person happy, without making yourself unhappy.  Love is out there for everyone, you just need to look hard for it.

Notes from packet

An Example of Rhetoric from Literature

• Rhetoric is not only used in nonfiction writing.  used in poetry, fiction, and drama
• example in Homer's  The Iliad, Priam uses rhetorical language to appeal to audience, Achilles

Arrangement

• arrangement- organizing of a piece
• is the text organized in the best possible way to achieve its purpose?
  

The Classical Model

• five paragraph essay used by many writers today
• introduction- writer usually establishes ethos
• narration- provides factual info and background info on subject; establishes why the subject is a problem that needs addressing; writer tries to evoke an emotional response
• confirmation- proof needed to make writer's case; strongest appeal to logos
• refutation- bridge from proof to conclusion; addresses counterargument; appeals largely to logos
• conclusion- closes essay; appeals to pathos and restates ethos
• Not by Math Alone helps to show this "classic" form of arrangement

Patterns of Development

• another way to consider arrangement is according to purpose

Narration

• refers to telling a story or recounting events
• based on personal experience or knowledge
• not only an appealing story, but also needs to support thesis
• often used as a way to enter into their topics
• draws readers in because everyone loves a good story

Description

• closely linked with narration; both include specific details
• emphasizes the senses by painting a picture
• used to make good atmosphere

Process Analysis

• explains how something works
• explain subject clearly and logically
• note major steps with transitions

Exemplification

• provides series of examples
• makes argument more clear
• Aristotle taught induction; series of specific examples leads to general conclusion

Comparison and Contrast

• juxtaposing 2 things to highlight similarities and differences
• used with examinations of two different sources
• subject-by-subject; discusses all elements of 1 subject and then turns to the next
• point-by-point; organized around the specific points of a discussion

Classification and Divisions

• important to sort materials and ideas
• sort ideas to break down a large idea into different parts

Definition

• discussions sometimes depend on definition
• used to makes sure audience and author are speaking about same idea; establishes common ground in areas of conflict
• often first step to debate or discussion

Cause and Effect

• powerful foundation for and argument is knowing the cause and effects
• casual analysis relies on logic; do not want to jump to conclusions; do not want to mistake cause for effect or vice versa 
• cause and effect is usually given away with a "why" in the title

3 Appeals from Mr. Darcy's proposal

Ethos: "But disguise of every sort is my abhorrence.  Nor am I ashamed of the feelings I related.  They were natural and just."  I chose this quote to represent ethos because I think it represents Mr. Darcy's character.  He says he does not like to hide himself in lies, and wants to be truthful.  

Logos: "I have no wish of denying that I did everything in my power to separate my friend from your sister, or that I rejoice in my success.  Towards him I have been kinder than towards myself."  I chose this quote to represent logos because I think that it shows Mr. Darcy's reasoning skills.  He spoke calmly and he spoke the truth.  He was honest about what he felt and stuck with his decision.  He did not make an excuse even though he understands that his actions hurt his own cause.

Pathos: "In vain have I struggled.  It will not do.  My feelings will not be repressed.  You must allow me to tell you how ardently I admire and love you."  I chose this quote to represent pathos because I thought Mr. Darcy was putting his emotions in the open, hoping that Elizabeth shared his feelings.

Appeal of Ethos, Logos, and Pathos

Ethos:

Ethos is character.   An example of a person who would appeal to ethos would be a police officer talking about laws, and how they should be followed.

Logos:

Logos is reason. An example of a person who would appeal to logos is any politician running for public office.  

Pathos:

Pathos is emotion. An example of a person who would appeal to Pathos would be a person speaking for people's rights. A perfect example of this would be MLK because his speeches appealed to people's emotions.

Comparison of Gatsby and Fast Food Nation

There are many similarities between Gatsby, and characters within the novel Fast Food Nation.  Some of the characters within the story come from poor families and gain money, which is very similar to how Gatsby made his money.  The fast food industry was started by many entrepreneurs who were looking for a way to make money.  Gatsby was an entrepreneur in his own way starting up many drug stores in order to make money.  These are the main similarities that between Gatsby, and the people within the story Fast Food Nation.