For Love

For Love 

Love is desired by all people.  It is almost impossible to resist.  Sadly, it is almost as hard to find true love.  No one says no to love, and once a person finds love they will do almost anything to hold onto it.  There are many factors that contribute to love.  It is a game of giving and taking.  It is a game however that everyone wants to be a part of.  

Many people believe that love is hard to find.  They think they will never find someone perfect for them.  That is because there is no one perfect for you.  Chances are that there is always someone somewhere that is better for you than the person you are with.  This does not mean the person you are with is the wrong person for you.  They are the most compatible person that you could find.  Usually once you find someone you love you will do anything to stay with that person.  You must give and take to make the relationship work.

In any relationship there are sacrifices both persons involved must make.  You will have to do things you would not normally want to do, and your partner will do things that they normally would not want to do.  What makes a relationship work is the willingness to do the things your partner enjoys, even if you do not enjoy doing it.  If you are not willing to make these sacrifices then you may not be the right person to be in a relationship.

Relationships sometimes do not last forever.  Nobody is perfect and people make mistakes.  There are certain mistakes you make in a relationship.  There are always fights. The ability to “kiss and make up” is what makes a relationship work.  You can not stay mad at your significant other.  You have to be able to forgive each other if the relationship is going to work.  Sometimes there are issues that arise that are not forgivable.  These situations usually do not end well, but usually these situations are created by a person not fit to be in a committed relationship.

Relationships are not for everyone.  There are some people who just can not stay committed to one person.  There are others who are afraid of relationships.  They fear of making a mistake or being hurt.  No body can control what their partner is going to do.  You can only trust them.  The longer you are together the more the trust builds.  One of the keys to a committed relationship is trust

Relationships are not easy.  There are times when you feel awful.  You may even not want to be in the relationship, but if you truly love the other person you fight through the hard times.  You are not alone through these times.  Your partner is there for you, and is going to help you whenever you need it.  That is what true love is about.  It is about making the other person happy, without making yourself unhappy.  Love is out there for everyone, you just need to look hard for it.